May 8 2009

Top 15 Most Astonishing Coincidences of All Time

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Each step in life is colorful and interesting. Life is exciting; and full of coincidences. Some very minor, but at times – very amazing. Here is a list of 15 of the most astonishing and incredible coincidences.

1. Historical Coincidence

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The lives of Thomas Jefferson and John Adams, two of America’s founders. Jefferson designed the Declaration of Independence, showing drafts of it to Adams, who (with Benjamin Franklin) helped to edit and hone it. The Continental Congress sanctioned the document on July 4, 1776. Amazingly, both Jefferson and Adams died on the same day, July 4, 1826 – exactly 50 years from the signing of the Declaration of Independence.

2. Hotel Discovery

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In 1953, television reporter Irv Kupcinet was in London to attend the enthronement of Elizabeth II. In one of the drawers in his room at the Savoy he discovered some items that, by their identification, owned by a man named Harry Hannin. Coincidentally, Harry Hannin – a basketball star with the famed Harlem Globetrotters – was a good friend of Kupcinet’s. But the story has yet another twist. Just two days later, and before he could tell Hannin of his lucky discovery, Kupcinet received a letter from Hannin. In the letter, Hannin told Kucinet that while staying at the Hotel Meurice in Paris, he found in a drawer a tie – with Kupcinet’s name on it.

3. Taxi

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In 1975, while riding a moped in Bermuda, a man was accidentally struck and killed by a taxi. One year later, this man’s brother was killed in the very same way. In fact, he was riding the very same moped. And to stretch the odds even further, the very same taxi driven by the same driver – and even carrying the very same passenger struck him!

4. Golden Scarab

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From The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche: “A young woman I was treating had, at a critical moment, a dream in which she was given a golden scarab. While she was telling me this dream I sat with my back to the closed window. Suddenly I heard a noise behind me, like a gentle tapping. I turned round and saw a flying insect knocking against the windowpane from outside. I opened the window and caught the creature in the air as it flew in. It was the nearest analogy to the golden scarab that one finds in our latitudes, a scarabaeid beetle, the common rose-chafer (Cetonia aurata) which contrary to its usual habits had evidently felt an urge to get into a dark room at this particular moment. I must admit that nothing like it ever happened to me before or since, and that the dream of the patient has remained unique in my experience.” – Carl Jung

5. Revenge Killing

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In 1883, Henry Ziegland broke off a relationship with his girlfriend who, out of distress, committed suicide. The girl’s enraged brother hunted down Ziegland and shot him. Believing he had killed Ziegland, the brother then took his own life. In fact, however, Ziegland had not been killed. The bullet had only grazed his face, lodging into a tree. It was a narrow escape. Years later, Ziegland decided to cut down the same tree, which still had the bullet in it. The huge tree seemed so formidable that he decided to blow it up with dynamite. The explosion propelled the bullet into Ziegland’s head, killing him.

6. Twins

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The twin brothers, Jim Lewis and Jim Springer, were separated at birth, adopted by different families. Unknown to each other, both families named the boys James. Both James grew up not knowing of the other, yet both sought law-enforcement training both had abilities in mechanical drawing and carpentry, and each had married women named Linda. Both had sons, one of who was named James Alan and the other named James Allan. The twin brothers also divorced their wives and married other women – both named Betty. And they both owned dogs which they named Toy.

7. Book Find

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In 1973, actor Anthony Hopkins agreed to appear in “The Girl From Petrovka”, based on a novel by George Feifer. Unable to find a copy of the book anywhere in London, Hopkins was surprised to discover one lying on a bench in a train station. It turned out to be George Feifer’s own annotated (personal) copy, which Feifer had lent to a friend, and which had been stolen from his friend’s car.

8. Photographic Coincidence

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A German mother who photographed her infant son in 1914 left the film to be developed at a store in Strasbourg. In those days some film plates were sold individually. World War I broke out and unable to return to Strasbourg, the woman gave up the picture for lost. Two years later she bought a film plate in Frankfurt, over 100 miles away, to take a picture of her newborn daughter. When developed the film turned out to be a double exposure, with the picture of her daughter superimposed on the earlier picture of her son. Through some incredible twist of fate, her original film, never developed, had been mislabeled as unused, and had eventually been resold to her.

9. Mystery Monk

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In 19th century Austria, a near-famous painter named Joseph Aigner attempted suicide on several occasions. During his first attempt to hang himself at the age of 18, a mysterious Capuchin monk interrupted Aigner. And again at age 22, the very same monk kept him from hanging himself. Eight years later, he was sentenced to the gallows for his political activities. But again, his life was saved by the interference of the same monk. At age 68, Joseph Aigner finally succeeded in suicide, using a pistol to shoot himself. Not surprisingly, the very same Capuchin monk – a man whose name Aigner never even knew, conducted his funeral ceremony.

10. Falling Baby

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In 1930s Detroit, a man named Joseph Figlock was to become a remarkable figure in a young (and, apparently, incredibly careless) mother’s life. As Figlock was walking down the street, the mother’s baby fell from a high window onto Figlock. The baby’s fall was broken and Figlock and the baby were unharmed. A year later, the selfsame baby fell from the selfsame window, again falling onto Mr. Figlock as he was passing beneath. Once again, both of them survived the event.

11. Royal Coincidence

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In Monza, Italy, King Umberto I, visited a small restaurant for dinner with his adjutant, General Emilio Ponzia- Vaglia. When the owner took King Umberto’s order, the King discovered that he and the restaurant owner were virtual doubles, in face and in build. Both men started talking about the outstanding resemblance between each other and found many more similarities.

a) Both men were born on the same day, of the same year, (March 14th, 1844).
b) Both men had been born in the same town.
c) Both men married a woman with same name, Margherita.
d) The restaurateur opened his restaurant on the same day that King Umberto was crowned King of Italy.
e) On the 29th July 1900, King Umberto learnt that the restaurateur had died that day in a mysterious shooting accident, and as he expressed grief, an anarchist in the crowd then shot him dead.

12. Poe Coincidence

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In the 19th century, the famous horror writer, Egdar Allan Poe, published a book called ‘The narrative of Arthur Gordon Pym’. It was about four survivors of a shipwreck who were in an open boat for many days before they determined to kill and eat the cabin boy whose name was Richard Parker. Some years later, in 1884, the yawl, Mignonette, foundered, with only four survivors, who were in an open boat for many days. Soon enough the three senior members of the crew killed and ate the cabin boy. The name of the cabin boy was also “Richard Parker”.

13. Twin Deaths

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In 2002, Seventy-year-old twin brothers expired within hours of one another after separate accidents on the same road in northern Finland. The first of the twins died when he was hit by a lorry while riding his bike in Raahe, 600 kilometers north of the capital, Helsinki. He died just 1.5km from the spot where his brother was killed. “This is simply a historic coincidence. Although the road is a busy one, accidents don’t occur every day,” police officer Marja-Leena Huhtala told Reuters. “It made my hair stand on end when I heard the two were brothers, and identical twins at that. It came to mind that perhaps someone from upstairs had a say in this,” she said.

14. Poker Luck

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In 1858, Robert Fallon was brutally killed, an act of vengeance by those with whom he was playing poker. Fallon, they claimed, had won the $600 pot through jockeying. With Fallon’s seat empty and none of the other players eager to take the now unlucky $600, they got a new player to take Fallon’s place and hazarded him with the dead man’s $600. By the time the police made it to inspect the killing, the new player had quadrupled the $600 into $2,200 in winnings. The police called for the original $600 to pass on to Fallon’s next of kin – only to find out that the new player turned out to be Fallon’s son, who had not seen his father in seven years!

15. Childhood Book

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While American novelist Anne Parrish was surfing local bookstores in Paris in the 1920s, she discovered a book that was one of her childhood favorites – Jack Frost and Other Stories. She took the old book and showed it to her husband, telling him of the book she tenderly remembered as a child. Her husband picked up the book, opened it, and on the flyleaf found the dedication: “Anne Parrish, 209 N. Weber Street, Colorado Springs.” It was actually Anne’s very own book!


May 1 2009

6 Steps to Recession Proof Your Job

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Studying how to recession proof your family at this time is very important, both to plan for the odds of layoff and flourish even during the recession. This article will explore six possible steps to recession proof your job.

As of last week, United States Government has publicly announced that the unemployment rate is at freaking 8%. Of course that’s alarming, but it also entails that 92% of Americans still have a job. They have a job that they’re frightened of losing. There are various simple steps that can keep you away from being laid off, and help you stay positive in your job.

1. Be Alert!

Be Alert

Don’t let your office’s economic position be an enigma to you. Trickle down communication doesn’t always convey the most accurate information or the most current. Familiarize yourself with trade publications, blogs and online resources specific to your industry. You may learn that industry insiders are speculating that your company will have layoffs soon. But you may also learn that a certain project is getting lots of buzz. By staying on top of the game, you may be able to position yourself onto the buzz project and avoid a layoff. At the very least, you may have time to prepare and the layoff won’t be a surprise.

2. Networking Works!

Networking

Networking isn’t only for the unemployed or sales people. Many professionals actively employed are always building their contacts. The idea behind this is by building relationships with people in your industry, you’ll be better positioned when you do need (or want) a job. There are several methods to do this. Join professional organizations geared toward your industry. Join LinkedIn. Join Twitter. The thing with networking is you must take a proactive approach. The contacts won’t come to you on a platter. You will be required to go join them wherever they are located.

3. Create Your Own Value

Create Value

You need to find ways to set yourself apart from Mr. XYZ Coworker. See if your industry has any special certifications that you can do to give you more knowledge in your field. If not, take a class at a local community college that would give you more experience or specialization. The advantage of this is two-fold. It shows you are passionate about your career and it makes you more knowledgeable in your field.

4. Go Above and Beyond…

Go Beyond

Sure, everyone has duties that they must get done. But do those and then some. Volunteer yourself for exceptional projects. Look around and find a way your company can cut costs without cutting quality. Be inventive. Also, be sure your boss and their boss know about. Don’t do it silently but don’t be obnoxious about it.

5. It Can Be Beneficial Having More Than One Income

Multiple Income

Even if you have a great full-time job, it’s not a bad idea to have a source of extra income on the side, whether it’s some consulting work or selling collectibles on eBay. With job security so missing these days, more jobs imply more job security. If you are dismissed from one, at least you still have the other one. You may not be earning as much money as you were before, but every little cent helps.

6. Positivity – The Key to Life’s Success

Positivity

Yes, it’s scary. Sure you want to talk about the possibility of getting laid off with your coworkers. But a confident and positive stance goes a long way. Lay offs are bad for employee morale. Poor morale negatively impacts work ethic. By keeping a positive attitude and applying that in your work, you show management that despite the downturn, you are still committed to your job and the company.

These tips are by no means a guarantee but they won’t hurt and can really help. Plus, be sure to always keep your resume up-to-date and the names of a few good headhunters handy.